Hi everyone! Just want to share this quick tip about repairing a broken relationship (any relationship, not just the intimate one). Sometimes we don’t realize what we did hurt the other person. When you think your loved one is hurt, try asking these 4 questions:
- How did I hurt you?
- What did I do to hurt you?
- What could I have done better?
- Will you forgive me?
Ask these questions and just be willing to listen. Don’t get defensive. Don’t interrupt your partner. Just fully listen to what he/she says and allow them to express their full feeling.
It is very important to just listen and then say sorry and be willing to make it up to the other person. Let the healing process begin.
That’s all it takes to start repairing your relationship. I’ll talk more about this in my next posts. If you want more relationship advice, be sure to follow me on Twitter and Facebook.